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Undoubtedly, old age is intricate. It is wholly natural. After middle age, one enters old age. As a result, all the bodily unease begins to surround them for additional years of life. It is more often made by them more special by their usual thinking. Here, it would be safe to say definitely that they try to live their precious life in finer manner. Older people become weak or helpless. They are bound to seek the help of others who show a humane attitude towards them. In turn, they feel good about their kindness. It is relatively safer to say that utter dismay & weakness somehow bring sadness to them. One aged person said that the weakness of the human body is a curse, straightly. It is the most vital boon from the Almighty. If the bodily weakness surrounds the human body, it compels us at least to realise the importance of good health. Sound health keeps a man free of all negative vibes.  It has rightly been said that health is wealth. It cannot be negated at all. We start fee...

Denial of second marriage shows wordiness


I am deliberately positioning myself pretty well to write a bit in detail about a recently discussed topic centred on straight denial about second marriage in one quite popular community. "No, I do not entirely agree. In our community, there remains virtually little chance or tradition of openly or slyly entering into the practice of a second marriage," stated a yet-to-be 75-year-old man. 

However, he entirely forgot that his wife's elder brother had remarried at that time and was still living with her. Despite this remarkably factual position, he argued that his people did not follow such unacceptably detestable norms; he avoids disclosing the stark truth if it directly involves his kin.

In other ways, he looked to be preaching or discussing morals and ethics while keeping a close eye on his relatives, who had pursued the concept of a second marriage without any sort of shame. Is it not a double standard? 

People more often hide reality so blatantly when it suits them! His reaction represented a complete deviation from the well-established actuality. This very decision to have a second wedding entirely symbolises another high point for the man. He strongly faces opposition to marrying for the second time. 

It is widely said that only a minimal number of people can stick to this practice. But those who have no confidence seldom try to practice this sort of habit. What is needed is a decision. I hate to say it, but I’m not into it. And I say this as someone who has a serious aversion to such weddings, mostly due to a combination of fear and childish malcoordination.

The change may be quite abrupt, especially since everything around us becomes a constant reminder that summer comes to an abrupt end. The most visible seasonal cues in nature are fallen leaves and bad weather, while wedding-related cues are rising in earth-toned attire and other fine-looking necessities.

From the moment one announces their firm decision to conduct a second marriage, people who know them start rumours surrounding the new marriage, and it begins circulating in society. A new bride with a fresh name would not have been pointless because there would certainly be more joys. 



 


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